27 Feb 2008

Flowers...!


Flowers are always one of my favourite in my wishlist and nothing capture my heart like flowers do..As I think about flowers and see or inhale its pure fragrance, it makes my heart glorify with happiness. I think there wont be anyone in this whole world who wont like flowers..

How eloquently flowers can speak the language of love... perhaps nothing can convey the way flowers do in such a natural & simple way.. because it is so delicate & beautiful like love...But how many of you get chance to say it with flowers and mean them? Frankly speaking I never had that many opportunities to either say it. Though deep inside, my heart has always longed for it or waited for that opportunity to make that someone feel special about their existence in my life.

Flowers and new born babies are very much alike. Both can be groomed and moulded as you like it. All it requires our love, care and patience in trying to make them what we ever wanted them to be. Flowers have an empowering affect on people’s lives. They bring joy and excitement when given or received during weddings, anniversaries, birthdays. A symbol of love to be cherished forever. They also provide utmost comfort when you miss your loved ones.

Shakespeare once said..."A Rose will still smell as sweet, with whatever name you may call it”..Yes, how true it is..!!!



24 Feb 2008

Often Times...!

Often times...
In the heavy stillness...
Between sleep and waking....
When I am yet unsure....
Of my conscious thought...
You slowly creep into the secret corners....

Often times...
When I lost in myself...
And struggling to pave my way...
A light comes shining through...
That spreads a smile across my face...
Is undoubtedly a happy thought of you...

Often times...
Just a thought of you...
Brings me faster to you...
Than the autumn breeze...
While whispering your name...
And quickly erase the distance between us...

21 Feb 2008

Life Goes On...!


This world consists of people and things. People are meant to be loved, things to be used. We mess it up by loving things and using people. As we grow up we learn that the one person, who wasn't supposed to let you down, probably will.

You'll have your heart broken, probably more than once, and it's going to be harder every time.

You'll break hearts too, so remember how it feels.You'll fight with your best friends and lose friends you thought you would always have.

You'll blame a new love for things an old one did.You'll cry because time is passing so fast and you'll eventually lose somebody you couldn't picture your life without.

So take too many pictures, laugh just a little too much, and live life to its fullest!

You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad,love what you have, and remember what you had, always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes, but never regret, people change, things go wrong, but just remember that LIFE GOES ON !


18 Feb 2008

Angel Disguised As Human..!

There comes a time in one's life, when a great and desperate need that someone appears out of the blue to perform an extraordinary act of kindness and then suddenly disapears as quickly as they came.When that day comes in our life we just wonder if we had met an Angel disguised as human....!!!

Something...!




As I glanced through my days..

I feel there is something else to find..

I've been listening to the winds blow..

And I've realized I've left something behind..

God only knows what something could be..

So how do I get whats missing back..

And figure out what all this is suppose to mean..

When I only have the question to the answers I lack..


So until the day...

When something is ready to be found..

Everything has its own special way..

I bet it enters without the slightest sound..

It will enter our lives, giving so much..

And expecting nothing in return..

Just to know we felt the touch..

Is SOMETHING only concern...!

17 Feb 2008

You Are Complete...!!



You are complete and whole..another person's love is a nice addition, but it is not necessary in order for you to live a fulfilling life. A beautiful, fulfilling and peaceful life can be built by simply shinning out with love and joy and sharing your gifts generously with others..

Love Hurts..!





Love hurts..when someone you love, leave you and walk away and when you watch the distance between your two bodies expand until there is nothing left but empty SPACE and SILENCE.. It hurts..when you love someone so much and then one day when you look into their eyes and realize that they are gone and all you can see in front of you is a person with just a KNOWN NAME...

Smiling Tears...!




No smile is more beautiful than the one that struggles through tears..There is a sacredness in TEARS. They are not the sign of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and unspeakable love..Things have different qualities, and the SOUL different inclinations; for nothing is simple which is presented to the soul, and the soul never presents itself simply to any object. Hence it comes that we WEEP & LAUGH at the same thing..

16 Feb 2008

Why.. Good Bye ?




People come into our lives..
And walk with us a mile...
Then because of circumstance..
They only stay a while...
They serve a need within the days..
That move so quickly by...
Then are gone beyond our reach..
We often wonder why...
God only knows the reason..
That we meet and share a smile...
Why people come into our lives..
And walk with us a mile...?

What would you do..?



What would you do if every time you fell in love with someone you had to say good-bye?...What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?...What would you do if for every moment you were truly happy there would be ten moments of sadness?...What would you do if you loved someone more than anything else and you could never have them?...

A Real Friend..!


When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, I think that is a friend that cares.

Thought Provoking...!

Hope...Life's Essential Ray...!

Hope is a wonderful thing..It put a smile on our face when the heart cannot manage and puts our feet on the path when our eyes cant see it.Hope pushes us to act when our soul are confused of the direction..Hope is such a marvelous thing, it bends it twists it sometimes hides but rarely does it break.it sustaines us when nothing else can.It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead when we want to give up..

Attitude...Only Matters...!

The longer you live, the more you realize the impact of attitude on life.Attitude, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past nor we can change the fact that people will act in a certain way.Since we cannot change the inevitable, the only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...we are in charge of our attitudes.

TIME...A Great Teacher...!

There are many lessons in life that only TIME can teach you, like how much you love someone. It's nearly impossible to know that, until you spend your days without them. And then there are those lessons that you can learn only through the beating of your heart, and through feeling such strong emotions that you can barely breathe. Then finally, the essence of time and the power of your heart crossing paths, and the only knowledge you're left with is the realization that time is the one thing that keeps you from letting go. No, it's never the feelings or togetherness not the dream or hardwork or the laughter or the tears, only TIME.

Forgiveness...A Soothing Mental Balm...!

Forgiveness is looking at the pain and letting go of the pain and accepting what has happened by dismissing the blame.Choices are consciously made to forget which caused the hurt.Forgiveness is knowing that love is the answer to all questions,and that we all are in some way connected.It allows us to move on toward a better understanding of universal love and our true purpose..


LOVE....An Eternal Question...!




Love is too intense a phenomenon to be limited within a framework of words. Possibly the most talked about subject yet and the least understood aspect of human life. Love means different things to different people.Most misconceptions regarding love arise because we use the word "love" to describe our relationships with living beings as well as inanimate objects. As such, we are unable to differentiate between liking, desire, infatuation, admiration, want, need, lust and LOVE.

"I have fallen in love!" is one of the commonest statements heard. But in reality we don't "fall" in love. As most believe Love is not beyond the control of the person. It is an act of conscious choice. We don't just fall in love, but we choose to love a person or THE person."Loving" a person and maintaining a loving relationship are two very different things. Love just doesn't happen,we need to work for it. In fact "to love" is one of the most demanding jobs..
True love is the culmination of sincerity, wisdom, respect, affection, warmth, security, commitment and above all sacrifice, which makes it a permanently self-enlarging experience. Deep abiding love transcends time, age, future and past. When it comes to love, there is no time. Further, whatever age you were when you met your love, that is the age they will always see you as. No matter how old you are, as long as you are in love, you feel young...

Power Of Mind...!



What you impress upon your mind, you'll inevitably become.It's a psychological law that whatever you desire to accomplish you must first impress upon your subconscious mind. Your inner thoughts can cause you to be rich or poor, loved or unloved, happy or unhappy,attractive or unattractive, powerful or weak.Relentless, repetitive self talk will change your self image. You'll affect your subconscious mind with verbal repetition. Constant repetition carries conviction.When you change your values you'll change your behavior.Start thinking of yourself as becoming the person you want to be. Self suggestion will make you the master of yourself. You can become whatever you want to be.If you believe you can, then you can.

13 Feb 2008

To My Love...On Valentine's Day...!

Red Roses were her favourite, her name was also Rose and every year her husband, sent them tied with pretty bows, but the year he died the roses were delivered to the door. The card said 'Be My Valentine' like all the years before each year he sent her roses and the note would always say I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love will always grow with every passing year so she knew this would be the last time that the roses would appear. She thought he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know that he would pass away. He always liked to do things early, way before the time then if he got too busy, everything would work out fine. She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase and sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face. She would sit for hours, in her husbands favourite chair while staring at his picture and the roses sitting there. A year went by and it was hard to live without her mate with loneliness and solitude, that had been her fate, then the very hour as with Valentines the year before the doorbell rang, and there were roses sitting by the door.!!!


She bought the roses in and then looked at them in shock and ran to get the telephone to call the florists shop. The owner answered as she asked him, if he would explain why would someone do this to her, causing so much painI know your husband passed away more than a year ago .The owner said I knew you'd call, I knew you'd want to know. The flowers you received today were paid for in advance. Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance. There is a standing order that I have on file down here and he has paid well in advance, you'll get them every year. There also is another thing that I think you should know. He wrote a special little card, he did this year to go. Should ever I should find out that he is no longer here that's the card that should be sent to you the following year. She thanked him and hung up the phone her tears now flowing hard her fingers shaking as she slowly reached to get the card inside. The card she saw that he had written her a note Then as she stared in total silence, and this is what he'd wrote..

Hello my love..
I know that it has been a year since I've been gone
I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome
I know it must be lonely and the pain is very real
For if it was the other way I know how I would feel
The love we share made everything so beautiful in life
I love you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need
I know it's only been a year but please try not to grieve
I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears
That is why the roses will be sent to you for years
When you get these roses think of all the happiness
That we had together and how both of us were blessed
I know I've always loved you, and I know I always will
But my love you must go on, you have some living still
Please try to find some happiness while living out your days
I know that it's not easy, but I hope you'll find some ways
The roses will come every year and they will only stop
When your door's not answered when the florist stops to knock
He will come five times that day in case you have gone out
But after his last visit he will know without a doubt
To take the roses to the place where I've instructed him
And place the roses where we are together once again...
Rose, My Love......Happy Valentine's Day....!


8 Feb 2008

Beautiful Silence...!

Have you ever experienced a moment in your life when you just ran out of words and you go SILENT???..... Let me assist calling you.....

...the moments of PAIN...when you left your home for the first time and you look back at your parents who are worried that their son/daughter are leaving them... yet happy that their child took the first step towards independence....
...the moment when you are parting with your old friend(s) and the train has just started... and you are standing on the door of the wagon.. waving "bye-bye" with your heart beating fast...
....the moment of SURPRISE when you get better marks than you expected, after preparing for the exam more than 6 months...after sharing your happiness with everyone and when you sit alone in your room thinking those "numb" moments of surprise "Is that true?"...

...the moment the HR manager tells you..Congrats!..you are through and u r going to step in ur dream job..those moments of joy..

....the moments JOY when the girl/boy you like most.. smiled back at you! You don't say anything...you just smile back.....those moments of ecstacy..



Can you imagine the importance of a silent moment in song?? When Bryan Adams stops for a while along with music, before he goes on in his husky voice... ... Please forgive me. I can't stop loving you!

You can go on remembering your "special" moments!...

I had always wondered why I never said anything to myself at those moments..as if it was understood...all feelings just flowed ceaselessly in the 'years' that passed in those flash moments!... Realising the best way to communicate is through "silence". It brings all emotions to the deepest.... Love, Joy, Grief, Anger, Surprise, Ecstacy, Hope..

You can go on remembering your "special" moments!...


I had always wondered why I never said anything to myself at those moments..as if it was understood...all feelings just flowed ceaselessly in the 'years' that passed in those flash moments!... Realising the best way to communicate is through "silence". It brings all emotions to the deepest.... Love, Joy, Grief, Anger, Surprise, Ecstacy, Hope..

Ever had those moments when you thought you were tired enough that you reach for your bed after dinner...but find yourself wide awake looking at the roof of your room silently... But you sure are 'thinking'...those moments of self-talk are the most important in our lives. Those moments when we listen to our own hearts! Those promises...those decisions... those are the moments when we make our destinies...

Next time you go silent... listen carefully to what your heart is saying.. listen to its joy...listen to its pain.. listen to its fears.. listen to its desires.. Don't make it shut up and go off to sleep... Listen to0 that voice and accept everything it says....! That voice alone can lead you to the abode of peace that your sleep lacks...peace that awaits you!

Be in touch with your true self... be silent once a day, every day !
Silence speaks more than your words...!

5 Feb 2008

A Memorable Date...!

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.

She said I love you but I know there is one more woman who loves you more and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

"What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. " Just the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, " I would like that very much."




That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed t hat she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting".



We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.

"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.

"How was your dinner date ?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I did to do anything for her.


Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.

You will never know what that night meant for me. "I LOVE YOU, Son."